عائلة الرسول (الأعمام) The Prophet's family (uncles)
السيرة النبوية للأطفال The Prophet's biography for children
حديثنا اليوم يا أصدقاء عن عائلة الرسول النبيلة، وسوف نتحدث عن الأعمام تحديداً، ولكن لماذا، ستتعرف في دراسة علم النفس كيف وجود الأعمام مهم جداً في حياة اولاد اخيهم ، سواء ذكور او اناث، فهل تأثر رسول الله صلي الله عليه وسلم بأعمامه سواء نساء او رجال؟ هل أثروا في شخصيته ، هل ورث جينات معينة منهم؟ دعنا نتعرف علي بعض هذه المعاني من خلال هذا الفيديو، ولكن لضيق الوقت سنتحدث عن المشهور منهم فقط ...
أولاً: العمات (لرسول الله ستة عمات)
السيدات: صفية – عاتكة – بُرة – أروي – أميمة – حكيمة البيضاء
1- السيدة صفية بنت عبد المطلب
من المشهور عنها- رضي الله عنها – أنها إحدى المهاجرات الأوائل وممن تزوجت تزوجت العوام، وأنجبت الصحابي الجليل الزبير بن العوام، وأبناء آخرين. كانت من ضمن المحاربين في غزوة الخندق، حيث قتلت يهودياً دفاعاً عن المسلمين.
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء؟
هل هي ذات شخصية عادية أم قيادية؟ بل هي ذات شخصية قوية وامرأة في ذات الوقت وهي من العرب الذين لم يعطوا القوة للمرأة قبل الإسلام بل العكس من ذلك.
2- بُرة بنت عبد المطلب
عمة الرسول ، كانت من الشاعرات الأديبات، وقد رثت أباها عند وفاته، ولم تدرك البعثة النبوية
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء؟
إنها كانت أديبة في مجتمع معظمه لا يحسن القراءة والكتابة
3- أميمة بنت عبد المطلب
كانت شاعرة بليغة، ولها عدد من الأقوال والقصائد، منها قصيدة في رثاء الرسول -صلى الله عليه وسلم-، وأخرى في رثاء أبيها عبد المطلب
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء
إن الشاعر لابد أن يواجه قومه ويلقي علي مسامعهم الشعر، وهي شاعرة وامرأة من العرب في نفس الوقت، فما رايكم في شخصيتها؟سنكتفي بهذا القدر
ثانياً: الأعمام
السادة: حمزة – ابو طالب – ابو لهب – العباس – الزبير – عبد الكعبة – المقوم – ضرار – قُثم – المغيرة
كالعمات سنأخذ المشاهير منهم ونتحدث عليه في عجالة
حمزة بن عبد المطلب (مات مسلما)
هو حمزة بن عبد المطلب بن هاشم بن عبد مناف القرشي الهاشمي. كان يُلقَّب: أسد الله وأسد رسوله صلى الله عليه وسلم، ويُعرف بـ: أبي عمارة
ما رأريكم يا أصدقاء
هل لكم القاب بين أقاربكم، مثل أسد الله وأسد رسوله؟
العباس رضي الله عنه (مات مسلماً)
يُعرف بـ: أبا الفضل، وكان أكبر من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بسنتين أو ثلاث، وقيل: هو أصغر عم للنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم سناً، ولد بمكة المكرمة قبل عام الفيل بثلاث سنين، وثاني أعمامه إسلاماً، وقد كان رسول الله يحبه كثيرا
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء
إن الأعمام القريبين من سن أولاد الأخ هم الأكثر حباً وعلاقة ودية
أبو طالب (مات مشركاً)
وكان اسمه عبد مناف، اشتهر بكنيته، كما كنّاه ابنه طالب، اشتهر بأنه تولي كفالة محمداً صلي الله عليه وسلم بعد ابيه (جد الرسول: عبد المطلب) وأكرمه وغذاه بين اولاده وكان يحابييه اكثر من أولاده – أي يفضله – وسافر معه سفرتين للتجارة، وكان يدافع عن رسول الله عندما عاداه قومه عندما أخذ الرسالة المحمدية من الله تبارك وتعالي، ولكنه مات مشركا ولم يدخل الإسلام
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء؟
1- لقد دافع عن رسول الله وهو مشرك، ولم يتنكر له رسول الله طوال حياته بسبب انه لم يدخل الإسلام وظل علي شركه، ليس هذا فحسب، بل كان رسول الله لآخر لحظة في عمر ابو طالب يرعي له جميله لوقوفه بجانبه في صغره وصباه: حتي لحظات موته الأخيرة اخذ يدعوه للإسلام ولكنه اصر علي الموت علي الشرك، وحتي بعد موته كان يدعوا له بالرحمة إلي ان نهاه الله عزوجل عن الدعاء له، وانتم يا أصدقاء: هل تكرهون وتعادون من لا يؤمن بالله أم تدعون له بالهداية؟
2- يا بني تعلم أنه دائماً وابدا مهما اختلفت عن من أمامك لابد من وجود مشتركات إنسانية علي سبيل المثال لا الحصر (فكرة ولتكن إصلاح المجتمع - أو ابتسامة أو لعب نفس الرياضة ...الخ) ستشاهد هذا كثيرا، تعلم احترام الإختلاف من رسول الله صلي الله عليه وسلم، ظلت علاقته بعمه طوال العمر بلا انقطاع حتي موت عمه ، وهو من ، هو رسول الله وخاتم النبيين.
أبو لهب
كان اسمه عبد العزى، وكان معروفاً بكنيته (أبو لهب) وقد سماه أبوه بذلك، وقيل: لحسن وجهه، تزوج أبو لهب بامراة تدعي أم جميل أو أروي بنت حرب، وفقد كانت النساء تكني كما الرجال، تكني اي كُنية التي ذكرت في القرآن بحمالة حطب قال الله تعالي في القرآن عنها (وامرأته حمالة الحطب) وكانت شديدة الجمال مثل زوجها، وماتت كافرة هي وزوجها وكانت تعادي رسول الله صلي الله عليه وسلم ودعوته.
ما رأيكم يا أصدقاء؟
1- ليس بالجمال وحده يعيش الإنسان؟ الناس بعادتها تميل للجمال، فقد وجدت دراسة نُشرت في المجلة البريطانية لعلم النفس الاجتماعي أن السلوك الاجتماعي الإيجابي، كاللطف والمساعدة، يؤثر على كيفية إدراك الآخرين للجمال الجسدي. وهذا يعني أن الأفعال اللطيفة لا تُعزز جاذبية الشخص فحسب، بل تُشكّل أيضًا تصورات الجمال بشكل إيجابي
2- لم يعتد الله تبارك وتعالي بجمال ابو لهب أو جمال زوجته أروي "ام جميل" مطلقا، فهو سبحانه ينظر لقلوبنا لا إلي جمال وجوههنا، لذا اهتم بمحل نظر الله لك
Today, friends, we'll talk about the noble family of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), specifically his paternal uncles. But why? Because in the study of psychology, you'll learn how important uncles are in the lives of their nephews and nieces, both male and female. Did the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) have an influence on his paternal uncles, both male and female? Did they affect his personality? Did he inherit certain genes from them? Let's explore some of these questions in this video, but due to time constraints, we'll only discuss the most well-known among them...
First: The father' Aunts (The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) had six paternal aunts)
The ladies: Safiyya, Atika, Burra, Arwa, Umayma, and Hakima al-Bayda'
1- Safiyya bint Abd al-Muttalib
She is known—may God be pleased with her—as one of the first emigrants. She married al-Awwam and gave birth to the noble companion al-Zubayr ibn al-Awwam, as well as other children. She was among the warriors in the Battle of the Trench, where she killed a Jew in defense of the Muslims.
What do you think, friends?
Is she an ordinary person or a leader? She is a strong personality and a woman at the same time, and she comes from an Arab society that did not empower women before Islam, quite the opposite, in fact.
2- Burrah bint Abd al-Muttalib
The Prophet's aunt, she was a poet and writer. She composed an elegy for her father upon his death and did not live to see the advent of Islam.
What do you think, friends?
She was a literary figure in a society where most people were illiterate.
3- Umaymah bint Abd al-Muttalib
She was an eloquent poet, and she has a number of sayings and poems to her credit, including a poem lamenting the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and another lamenting her father, Abdul-Muttalib.
What do you think, friends?
A poet must address his people and recite poetry to them. She was both a poet and an Arab woman. What are your thoughts on her character?
We will leave it at this level.
Second: The Uncles
The following are names of uncles: Hamza, Abu Talib, Abu Lahab, Al-Abbas, Al-Zubayr, Abd al-Ka'bah, Al-Muqawwim, Dirar, Qutham, and Al-Mughirah.
Like the paternal aunts, we will focus on the most prominent among them and discuss them briefly
Hamza ibn Abd al-Muttalib (died a Muslim)
He was Hamza ibn Abd al-Muttalib ibn Hashim ibn Abd Manaf al-Qurashi al-Hashimi. He was nicknamed "The Lion of God" and "The Lion of His Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him)," and was also known as Abu Ammarah.
What do you think, friends?
Do you have any other nicknames among your relatives, such as "The Lion of God" and "The Lion of His Messenger"?
Al-Abbas (may God be pleased with him) (died a Muslim)
He was known as Abu al-Fadl. He was two or three years older than the Messenger of God (peace and blessings be upon him), and it is said that he was the youngest of the Prophet's uncles. He was born in Mecca three years before the Year of the Elephant and was the second of his uncles to embrace Islam. The Messenger of God loved him very much.
What do you think, friends?
Uncles close in age to their nephews are the most loving and have the closest bonds.
Abu Talib (died a polytheist)
His name was Abd Manaf, but he was known by his nickname, Talib, which was given to him by his son. He was famous for taking care of Muhammad (peace be upon him) after his father's death (the Prophet's grandfather, Abd al-Muttalib). He treated him with great kindness, raising him among his own children and showing him more favor than his own. He accompanied him on two trading journeys and defended the Prophet when his people opposed him after he received the divine message from God Almighty. However, he died a polytheist and did not embrace Islam.
What do you think, friends?
1- He defended the Messenger of God while he was still a polytheist, and the Messenger of God never turned against him throughout his life because he hadn't embraced Islam and remained a polytheist. Not only that, but the Messenger of God, until the very last moment of Abu Talib's life, showed him gratitude for his support during his childhood and youth. Even in his final moments, he continued to invite him to Islam, but Abu Talib insisted on dying a polytheist. Even after his death, the Messenger of God prayed for God's mercy upon him until God Almighty forbade him from doing so. And you, my friends: Do you hate and oppose those who do not believe in God, or do you pray for their guidance?
2- My son, learn that always and forever, no matter how different you are from the person in front of you, there must be common human things, for example, but not limited to (an idea, let it be reforming society - or a smile or playing the same sport...etc.). You will see this a lot. Learn to respect differences from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace. His relationship with his uncle remained unbroken throughout his life until his uncle’s death, and he is the Messenger of God and the Seal of the Prophets.
Abu Lahab
His name was Abd al-Uzza, and he was known by his nickname, Abu Lahab. His father gave him this name, and it is also said that it was due to his handsome face. Abu Lahab married a woman named Umm Jamil or Arwa bint Harb. Women, like men, were known by nicknames. The nickname mentioned in the Quran is "the carrier of firewood," as God Almighty said in the Quran, "And his wife, the carrier of firewood." She was exceptionally beautiful, like her husband. She and her husband died as disbelievers, and she was an enemy of the Messenger of God, peace and blessings be upon him, and his message.
What do you think, friends?
1- Is beauty alone enough for a person to live? People are naturally drawn to beauty. A study published in the British Journal of Social Psychology found that positive social behavior, such as kindness and helpfulness, influences how others perceive physical beauty. This means that kind actions not only enhance a person's attractiveness but also positively shape perceptions of beauty.
2- God Almighty was never concerned with the beauty of Abu Lahab or his wife Arwa (Umm Jamil). He looks at our hearts, not our outward appearances. Therefore, be mindful of what God sees in you.
Related Studies
1. They love your children
Through thick and thin, uncles stand by your children to encourage, support, and love them.
2. They make your children laugh
From jokes to games, uncles bring out the fun side of your children. They make them laugh, smile, and express their joy.
3. They enjoy reminiscing about their childhood
What uncle doesn't enjoy playing ball, building forts, or introducing your children to classic 80s movies? You might say uncles are like big kids.
4. They give parents a break
What parent doesn't love a moment of peace and quiet when their fun-loving uncle visits? Uncles entertain children, help them release energy, and often take them outside to play.
5. They can solve any problem quickly, creatively, and effectively
using only gum, paper clips, and tape.
6 - They share the same genes as your children. Measured as percentages, we expect an individual to share approximately 19-33% of their DNA with these relatives.
In conclusion,
as the Arabic proverb says: We are phases in each other's lives. We don't pass by anyone by chance, nor are we bound to anyone by mere coincidence. Rather, they influence the formation of our personalities. Everyone who crosses our path, whether near or far, adds to our experience in this life, whether a beautiful memory that we recall and smile at often, or a painful one, or something else entirely. So don't be surprised that very close relatives, like uncles, are a source of inspiration for future actions in our lives, even without our realizing it. Perhaps our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) inherited strength of character and eloquence from his aunts, and from his uncle Abu Lahab, even though he died an infidel and an enemy, he inherited beauty. Perhaps he inherited from his uncle Al-Abbas an unforgettable friendship due to his uncle's young age, and so on. Of course, God is Most High and All-Knowing.
So, O God, bless and grant peace to our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)
The Links
https://www.huffpost.com/archive/ca/entry/15-reasons-why-uncles-rock_b_9039852
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